Do You Masturbate?


The fact that you are here reading this essay means that you masturbate.  Or, at the very least, that you’ve touched yourself in a way that was sexually stimulating. You are curious as to whether it was actually masturbating. Many people are ashamed to admit they masturbate. They fear it is wrong, perhaps because of their religious beliefs.  Or, maybe because they think if it feels that good, it must be wrong. While it is true, masturbation can become an addiction, exploring one’s body and its responses to various stimuli is part of becoming self-aware, of attuning mind with body.


How Often Do You Masturbate?


So, you’ve admitted that based on the definition above, there is no doubt about it, you masturbate. The next question is, “How often do you masturbate?” Before you answer that, I’ll bet you’re thinking, “I wonder what is considered ‘often’.” Obviously, that is a subjective question.  But, if you have to ask, my guess is that you masturbate quite a bit.


Maybe you are even worried that you are addicted to masturbation. That you cannot stop thinking about masturbating, even when you aren’t actually doing it. If that is the case, perhaps you should look into having one of our phone sex Mistresses put you on a Cock Control program. After chatting with you about your situation, she will put together a personalized cock control program just for you. Depending on the situation, she may use various cock control methods ranging from mild to what some would consider extreme cock control.


How Can I Start a Cock Control Program If I’m In a Relationship?


We Cock Control Mistresses hear that question a lot. And there is no one answer that works for everybody. However, almost always there is an answer that will work for you. It is common to think calling a phone sex mistress, when you are in a relationship, is cheating. It all depends on the situation. Sometimes it is cheating. Other times, it actually enhances your sexual relationship with your significant other. The bottom line is that only you and your significant other can decide what is right for your relationship. But if you are so addicted to masturbation that you are masturbating, instead of having sex with her, then she will likely be happy that you are taking steps to change the situation.


We hear it all the time. “I do masturbate a lot and I’d rather masturbate than have sex, because I know exactly what I need and how to get there in record time. It’s efficient and I don’t have to worry about all the hassle and time involved with having intercourse. But I’m certainly not a masturbation addict!” That is like a heroin addict saying “Heroin is the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing I think about at night. I spend my days trying to score my next dose, but I’m not an addict. I can certainly stop anytime I want!” I think we would all agree that the person who made that statement is a heroin addict and needs help. Yet, the masturbation statement is just as telling.


Now that you know the “official” definition of masturbation, step back and consider how often you masturbate. Perhaps you are in need of guided masturbation and/or cock control, after all.


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